It’s Day 14 of my 21-Day detox and we’re heading into the homestretch. While the daily discipline required to stay on course is intense, I’m loving the confidence that comes with cleaning out my body and mind while connecting deeply with my soul.
There are as many reasons to do a cleanse, detox, or a purification as there are people who do them. Many people, however, do them to lose weight. And if they diligently follow a particular protocol, they usually do.
Unfortunately, unless they continue with the habits put in place during the detox, the results usually aren’t sustainable. Granted, the first couple of days, no one wants to continue after Day 21. But about half way through when they start feeling better, they might consider it. By the end of it, they may have lost all desire to go back to their pre-detox habits.
I’m all for breaking up with unhealthy habits. Because breaking up is hard to do, my first rule when detoxing is to Become a Badass. I mean this in the best possible way.
You must be kind and compassionate to yourself and others. But you must be ruthless with the terrible tales you tell yourself about your inability to stick with anything for more than a minute.
Cleansing requires considerable courage. Toxins come in many forms – from the foods we eat to the air we breathe to the people we surround ourselves with.
When I detox, I’m no longer able to tolerate toxins the way I did before. Becoming a Badass is an act of bravery. I have to let go of things I no longer need since holding on to them sabotages my health and well-being.
For example, as my first official act of Badassery, I broke up with my scale. To me it was a liar, a terrorist, a tyrant, and a thief. I decided to no longer accept its feedback as a measure of success or failure during the detox or any time.
I refused to let the scale diminish anything I might innately know about my body, like how it feels, what it needs, how I nourish it, or how I find pleasure in it. I refused to let an ever elusive number impact my day, my mood, my perspective, or my relationship with myself or others.
I have no need to give my power over to something as fickle as a firecracker. A scale can’t measure if I feel lighter, leaner, or more confident. It can’t begin to measure how much clearer my thoughts or complexion are or how much more emotionally available and spiritually connected I am. It cannot imagine the thrill of embodying fully.
The thing is I’ve always possessed the power to expose the scale for what it is. I trusted it more than myself when I was younger. But not anymore. I trust my body to weigh whatever it wants to when I am nourishing it well and moving it meaningfully.
As a Certified Eating Psychology Coach, I know the damage a scale and what it represents can have on self-worth and body image. I’ve seen how it contributes to a multitude of eating disorders.
If you have a healthy relationship with your scale, you may not need to break up with it. Maybe your issue is with something else. Whatever it might be, call it out.
This is necessary in order to follow my Second Rule of Badassery: Take back your power from whoever or whatever shamed you or made you feel less than all of who you are.
I’ll leave you with these words for advice. “Never ask if anything makes your butt look big. Assume you look marvelous because YOU are marvelous. You’re a Badass, for goodness sake. 🙂
Who or what do you need to detox from this week? I’d love for you to share if you dare in the comments below.
Also, if you are interested in learning more about detoxing, I’m starting a new project called The Detox Diaries. If you’d like to follow along, let me know and I’ll send you an email when the blog is ready.